In this episode, we dive into the fascinating world of wedding customs in Kenya, particularly the tradition of gifting newlyweds a lavish new bed. Join us as we unravel the origins of this practice, tracing it back to its roots in the bride’s mother providing bedding—symbolizing her daughter’s new life.
But how did this evolve into the expectation of extravagant king-size beds that often don’t fit in newlyweds’ small homes? We explore the historical context, including the impactful hut census led by Mzee Jaramogi Oginga Odinga, which shifted living arrangements and created financial pressures on families.
As we discuss the pressures of adhering to cultural norms, we invite listeners to consider the practical implications of such traditions in modern life. Should wedding gifts be about grandeur or practicality? Join us for a lively conversation that encourages a fresh perspective on how we celebrate love while staying grounded in reality. Tune in and share your thoughts on how we can honor tradition while embracing change!
Episode based on Robert Yawe’s article Taxation and the birth of the double bed.